I just returned from a weekend in Medford, Oregon. Six of the seven members of my immediate family (Ricky is in the throws of moving and was the only one unable to be there) flew from all over the country to be with my grandmother to celebrate her 95th birthday. It was a true labor of love to orchestrate this the week before Christmas, considering Maret is 8 months pregnant and all the rest of us have children at home. And Lindsay and I are both on the complete opposite side of the country, so flights are very expensive and there are no direct flights into the small little Medford airport. But we pulled it off and it was so, so worth it!
The morning of her birthday (Saturday, the 13th), she was in the lobby of the Manor (she lives in a retirement community known as the Manor, but she has her own apartment in the Manor; it is mostly Independent Living and that is where she is, at Age 95, bless her!). My parents were with her (she knew they were coming to celebrate) and then the four of us "kids" all walked in singing Happy Birthday. I got the whole thing on video, but uploading video to blogger and I have never gotten along. So suffice it to say, she was SHOCKED. She got very emotional. She just couldn't believe we were all there. After surprising her, we visited in the lobby for a while and then joined her for lunch.
It's too bad Ricky couldn't be there. This is the only time I can ever remember all us siblings getting together without spouses and kids. It was just like "old times" 20+ years ago. Back at the hotel, it was like a slumber party every night!
Checking out the view from the "Penthouse"/rooftop of the Manor
Grandma lives on the Third Floor
One of the absolute highlights of this trip for me was face timing my kids and having Grandma "see" them. I named Riley Jane after my Grandma, Betty Jane. The last time I was able to visit my Grandma was in 2010, when I was pregnant with Riley. So, although Grandma has seen pictures of Riley, and vice versa, this was the very first time they were able to "meet" each other. That is Riley on the phone. It was so sweet to see them talk to each other while looking at each other and hearing them each say "I love you" to the other.
I had Ryan hold the phone so that I could take pictures and document them "seeing" each other.
That night, the festivities began! I only have two cousins on my dad's side of the family (my dad has one sibling, his brother Jim, who has two children, Tom and Jackson) and they were both able to join us. So, my grandma was surrounded by all but one of her grandchildren for her big day.
Mother and son
My 95 year old grandmother even thought of and provided party favors. We each had a box of Sees Candy along with an angel ornament at our place setting. In addition, I added the scroll at each place setting which was a personalized "On the Day You Were Born" write up of a listing of current events, cost of living, etc during 1919.
My dad started our steak dinner with a toast
After dinner, we brought out the cake we had ordered from a local bakery and sang Happy Birthday to the Birthday Girl!
After some family/group pictures, we visited a while longer and then Maret had to say good-bye since she was flying home first thing the following morning.
And so did Lindsay
One of my favorite memories of the trip was after we said our goodnights/goodbyes, we watched grandma pushing her walker toward the elevator. We all spontaneously started singing "Happy Birthday" as we walked out the front door. As we finished singing, she turned around and waved. I had tears in my eyes. I think most of us did. And I soaked in that moment of watching her from behind, at the age of 95 pushing her walker toward her apartment, as we parted ways after a day where we all left our lives to celebrate hers. I tried to consciously etch that moment in my mind.
After getting Maret and Lindsay off to the airport, the four of us explored Medford a little. Here we are at Tou Velle State Park. Would have been a great place to kayak or raft in warmer weather!
We also went to see the Medford LDS Temple.
Then we went back to the Manor to visit with my grandma some more. Ryan and I took her to the computer lab and showed her our family blogs. Then we all had dinner together. After dinner, we went to see a performance by an acapella group called the Undertones from Northwestern University. My grandmother's 94 year old best friend, Marjorie, joined us. Aren't they cute?

After the concert, we headed out to see Christmas lights. I looked online and found a single house that people online were raving about, so we headed out in search of that one house. Little did we know that "one house" was part of two streets where every single house up an down both sides were DECKED out to the nines. It was incredible!! There was even one house that had music playing and all the lights flashed on and off all over the yard and house in different colors and such all synchronized to the music. It was AMAZING! And just when you thought, it couldn't possibly get better, the next house was even more amazing. I am 38 years old and have seen a lot of Christmas displays in my life. But I have never in my life seen this many amazing homes all congregated together like this. It was a perfect way to end the trip!
Pictures can't possibly do any of this justice, but trust me, it was absolutely AMAZING!
Monday morning, we had a couple hours in the morning before we had to leave for the airport, so we picked up Grandma and headed to Harry and David, which is headquartered in Medford. We all did a little retail damage there!
Cranberries anyone?
And before we knew it, it was time to drop Grandma off and say our goodbyes...
It's hard to say good-bye to your only living grandparent when she is 95 years old knowing the last time I saw her was 4 years ago, due to how difficult it is for me to get to Medford. But what a great weekend. So many great memories. So much good, quality time.
You are loved, Grandma!