Look at the creative hairstyle styled by the least creative person ever! Thank you Instagram (and creative friends I follow on Instagram:))
So, with the V-day hairstyle complete, I rushed L and T off to school yesterday.
And then I picked them up a few hours later and we had fun going through their class (treat-free (Boo!!)) valentines.
Just so Tanner knows how much I love him when he reads this 20 years from now, I am going to post what my original plan for the day was. In a nutshell, over the past year or two, all the fun (imo) has been starting to be phased out of my kids elementary school. It all started with birthday treats... you couldn't bring homemade birthday treats. They had to be store bought with the ingredient label on them citing "safety" reasons. Then, by last year, birthday celebrations and treat were totally banned. Classroom parties soon followed and by the beginning of this year, it was announced, there would only be two classroom parties for the entire year: Halloween and Valentines Day. BUT, the classroom parties would be activities/games only - no food or beverage of any kind. Absolutely ridiculous. They said that it was to protect kids with allergies. First of all, there are only a small handful of kids with allergies in this school of 300+ kids and secondly, this can be alleviated by simply having a conversation with mother of allergy student and room mom so allergies are communicated. Just like it has always been done.... with absolutely no problems whatsoever! But a few hyper parents and administrators swung the pendulum to the opposite extreme and before you know it, literally everything that used to be fun in school is now banned except for those two classroom parties without food. So, I hurriedly signed up to be a volunteer at the beginning of the year and I was chosen to host the V-day party for T's classroom. He was thrilled. ALL year, he has been begging me to volunteer for Guest Reader, Field Trip chaperone, etc. But inevitably, these opportunities always fell on a day I had to work and/or couldn't find childcare for my younger two kids. But I always knew I had the V-day party, and I kept reminding T of that over and over again. I arranged my childcare months in advance. Then, LAST WEEK, I got an email from the room mom stating that all V-day classroom parties had been canceled. BOO! It was so sad telling T I wouldn't be volunteering after all because of some ridiculous decision someone/group of people was making. I was furious. So, for the record, I was on the phone with your principal giving him a (cordial and civil) piece of my mind about the whole thing and I started a FB thread on the School's (unofficial) fb page that illicited over 40 comments and was read by 178 people. So, for what it's worth, T, I tried. And I promise I'll make it up to you somehow. I'll come surprise you with lunch one day at school and it will be great and you will feel loved :)
The night did end on a high though. Dave and I decided to celebrate our V-day a night early. We got a baby-sitter and went out and got full body massages (finally cashing in a gift card from my sister that she gave us over a year ago!) and out to a nice dinner. Our first V-day together was in 2005, so we've hit our decade mark of Valentines Days.
Happy V-day! We started off the day eating pink, heart-shaped pancakes.
Bon Appetite!
Waiting patiently for pancakes.
I love this picture... she looks upset, but she is happy as a clam squinting her little face together trying to say "cheese" for the camera. And it also shows perfectly her current phase of finding everything in the house that could remotely pass as a necklace and draping it around her neck.
Riley Jane slept in, so we started breakfast without her and started off by opening our V-day cards from our 95-year old Great Grandma (GG). This dear woman send each of my children a hand-written individual card for EVERY SINGLE HOLIDAY. It is amazing. We always talk about her when they open their cards. I love that she has been able to be a part of their lives this way even though she lives on the opposite side of the country.
Lacey helping Ella with her card.
And then it was time for V-day baskets!
Riley J made sure to wake up for this part!
I figured last night was "our" V-day and today it was all about the kids. But when I ran out grocery shopping, I found this sweet surprise on my car seat.
And to top off a great morning, Lacey gathered everyone together and told us that she had created a family Valentines Day card and wanted to present it to us.
To My Family
Happy V-day.
I will always Love You.
Right back at you, baby girl. Right back at you.